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Image of cupid and heartNot everyone using online dating sites is looking for love. Scammers create fake online profiles using photos of other people — even stolen pictures of real military personnel. They profess their love quickly. And they tug at your heartstrings with made-up stories about how they need money — for emergencies, hospital bills, or travel. Why all of the tricks? They’re looking to steal your money.

As if all that isn’t bad enough, romance scammers are now involving their victims in online bank fraud. Here’s how it works: The scammers set up dating profiles to meet potential victims. After they form a “relationship,” they come up with reasons to ask their love interest to set up a new bank account. The scammers transfer stolen money into the new account, and then tell their victims to wire the money out of the country. Victims think they’re just helping out their soulmate, never realizing they’re aiding and abetting a crime.  

Here are some warning signs that an online love interest might be a fake. They ask you to:

  • chat off of the dating site immediately, using personal email, text, or phone
  • wire money using Western Union or Money Gram
  • set up a new bank account

Did you know you can do an image search of your love interest’s photo in your favorite search engine? If you do an image search and the person’s photo appears under several different names, you’re probably dealing with a scammer. And if the person’s online profile disappears a few days after they meet you, that’s another tip-off.

Here’s the real deal: Don’t send money to someone you met online — for any reason. If your online sweetheart asks for money, you can expect it’s a scam.

Unfortunately, online dating scams are all too common. There may be tens of thousands of victims, and only a small fraction report it to the FTC. If this happens to you, please report it at ReportFraud.ftc.gov.

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Upset
September 20, 2019

In reply to by Ella

Hello Ella , do you have any photos of this Elliott Morton ?
T.D. Lee
June 23, 2020

In reply to by Ella

Yes I know Mr. Eliot Morton. He gave me the same story except his daughter's name was Princess and staying with the neighbors while he was in Ghana building a hospital. Also was supposedly buying gold, so we could be rich, but his account was blocked and had money being sent to a Desmond and a couple others. The last story I got was that he had been kidnapped and they wanted more money or they were going to kill him. I was so angry with this dude. Red flags went up with the contract he sent me and I noticed different fonts on the numbers and I blew it off instead of going with my intuition. He claimed he lived in Vegas even sent pics of this guy he was portraying leaving Vegas heading to Ghana. He's still out there and he's going by Marias now and his number is 225-330-3310. A Louisiana number...SMH!!! I hope they catch this loser!
Deborah68
April 21, 2018
I have been talking to a Maxwell Hernandez for about 6 wks. I fell for all the romantic talk and sent him a $100 ITunes card. Last week he had me do a money gram for $200. I became very suspicious when he wanted it sent to New York. He is in Florida. Money gram would not release money so I got it all back. He became very mad at me thinking I did something wrong. I talked yo money gram and there was a flag on that person's name. I did send another $100 ITunes card and told him this was it. He tested me today asking for another card. I told him NO end of discussion. I feel kind of stupid that I fell for his romantic talk. But in the back of my mind I knew something was off. I kept it going too because I wanted to find out the truth. He is smart because he had an answer for everything. We women need to be strong and not part with the money we have earned.
Angey
April 22, 2018
I don’t know about this but this guy message from Instagram saying his name is jimmy Humphrey a doctor in New Jersey he confess his undying love for me days from talking to me asked me to sent an email to his superviser saying that I’m his wife and he need to get home because I need his presence at home. He wants to leave this facility he is in or he will be sent to Afghanistan. He hasn’t ask me for money, just that he wants to transfer his allowance to my account because that the only way he is going to get it from his employees we have only talk by messages on instagram. Is just weird
FTC Staff
April 23, 2018

In reply to by Angey

Some scammers use people to help them transfer stolen money. They meet people online, create a relationship, and ask their new sweetheart to use their bank account receive and transfer money.

If you do this for a scammer, your name is on the bank account and on the money transfer forms. If you get involved with one of these schemes, you could lose money and personal information, and you could get into legal trouble.

Deborah68
April 22, 2018
I have talking to guy named Maxwell Hernandez for a month. He is very charming and romantic so I was caught up in this web of love. I sent him an I tunes card for him yo complete some paperwork. It did not make sense to me but I sent it anyway. He claims to live in Florida but his phone number is a landline in New York. Last week he had me send $200 via money gram. He had me send it to Dominica Cottone in New York. This did not make sense yo me but he said his account was frozen and this woman handles his money. Lucky for me money gram would not release the money to her so I got my money back. I did send him another ITunes card. He would have me purchase cards and take a picture of the back so he could use the number. Yesterday he asked for another card and I told him NO end of discussion. I have not heard from since yesterday morning.when talking to me I sometimes felt I was talking to a different person. His voice when he called did not match the pictures he sent me. So after reading these blogs I feel used, stupid, and disappointed.
Mimi
April 22, 2018
I've just dealt with one. Goes by the name Darrin Webber who is supposedly a Trinidad. Started texting on April 4,2018. He's already asked me to marry him. He refused to video chat or exchange cell numbers. Used TextNow to communicate. Asked me on April 13th to send him money to finish his project in Kenya. Claimed to only have 75k on hand but needed 90k plus another 50k. When I said no,about the no money he claimed to have found someone to send it to him but he needed an account to have it sent to. I refused again, he disappeared. He must think I'm a fool. If I had 65k, why would I send to a guy I don't even know.
nowbroken
April 22, 2018
Has anyone been contacted by a man named William Granth Ian or William Ian Granth or just William Granth? He was on Facebook but he's changed his FB page three time, supposedly because he was hacked. Part of me thinks he was using his own photos, because he sent me other photos in addition to the ones on his FB page. Anyway, I was a little surprised when he started calling me honey, dear, sweetie, love, etc so early on. He said he lived in London and had his own business which required him to travel. Soon after we met, he asked me to download the Viber app since his FB page was hacked. It took me a while to accomplish this and he kept getting more and more insistent. I finally got on Viber and we communicated multiple times per day. Overnight, he would send me a song via a Youtube video and a photo of some flowers. Sometimes his messages were very clear and concise with good grammar. At other times they rambled and were hard to understand. We messaged or talked (allegedly) from Barcelona, from Ukraine, and from Thailand. This went on for 3 or 4 months. Right before he went to Thailand, he was talking about the traffic in London and I asked him what he drove. He said he had a Porsche and a Chevy pick-up. I laughed and called him Richie-Rich or something. He said "I have not talked about this before, but you should know where I stand and what I have now because you are a part of my life" He asked how I felt about moving to London. I told him I hated to fly and I did not want to be so far from my family. He said he had no problem moving to the states. I was more reserved with my feelings than he was, but eventually I did fall in love with him. Or at least as much as you can when you haven't met someone in person. When he arrived in Thailand, he called me from the airport. He said he was trying to get to his hotel, and he'd call me back. Within 30 minutes, he called me back and we talked half the night. We laughed and had so much fun and talked about so many things. I had really fallen hard. On his second day there, he said something about he might need me to go online and access his account which a company had put a large amount of money into. I simply said "OK" but the warning bells went off. That night I did a search for "Online romance scams" and became far more educated than I wanted to. I was crushed and hoping the subject would not come up again. The next day he sent me a screen shot of his bank account which showed a large sum of money. He said he could not access it because he was working in a remote area. He said the corrupt local officials had charged him 3 times what they were supposed to and he needed to get his hand on some cash quickly. He said his assistant had sent him some but he still needed $6K. I was heartbroken. I told him I had just used all of my savings to pay my income taxes. He became a different person when I said NO. He sent me text after text saying how could I say I love him and then turn my back on him when he needed me. Didn't I know he was wealthy and would pay me back? And the more I refused, the angrier he became. I knew I would not give him money, but I wanted to see where this went. I also loved him so much (or the person he pretended to be) that I kept hoping something would occur that would redeem him. But it did not happen. He became verbally abusive. He said if I had a good job and had been working a long time, I had to have money saved unless I was a drug addict. So watch out for this guy. If anyone has had any dealings with someone by that name, please post on here and let me know. I need closure for this, as I am so angry and so heartbroken.
Keepdreaming666
April 24, 2018

In reply to by nowbroken

Hi nowbroken, Can you describe the guy you were talking too.
Nowbroken
April 26, 2018

In reply to by Keepdreaming666

In his 50s, I think. Grey hair that is receding and worn parted on the side. Kind of crooked nose. Nice smile. Straight teeth. Has a very strong accent. Made up a nickname for me. Called me love, dear, honey, and “my queen” a couple of times. Is supposedly a chemical engineer who now has his own company and does business all over the world. What name did he use with you? Does the description sound right?
Keepdreaming666
April 26, 2018

In reply to by Nowbroken

Hi, No the guy I am talking to is 48 and has a beard, he doesn’t have a crooked nose and no grey hair. Does he have children do you know?

Nowbroken
April 26, 2018

In reply to by Keepdreaming666

When I asked, he said he had one grown daughter. And then he never mentioned her once in all the time we talked. Doesn’t sound like the same guy. I’m having such a difficult time getting over this. It’s horrible!

Don't use your…
April 22, 2018
Has anyone chatted with a Steve Offulue?
Ibbchgrl
April 23, 2018
There is a guy on Instagram named captain Scott 86 he also goes by a different profile name Nicholas Owuwonu. Same story he is on a cargo ship in the Indian Ocean and needs money to be rescued from the ship also needs money for his sons boarding school also request iTunes gift cards very amorous at the beginning tells you he loves you within three days sends lots of photos that are probably five years old ladies be where
Threasa
April 23, 2018
Hi I have been scammed out off 2 thousands pounds through this was so scary a guy called Jacob Ross bill and many others I fell for it so stupid as well all the money I lost and nearly got in trouble with the police to until they release that I had beeno scammed to
Bebe1975
April 23, 2018
I suspect this man David Albert is a scammer says he is a on an oil rig, asked me to send money to an address in Cincinnati to his attorney to assist with equipment needed on th he rig..and friend told me by his accent he us Nigerian has a daughter Sophie wife passed with breast cancer.ask for $18,000
Fatima
August 20, 2020

In reply to by Bebe1975

I am going through something similar although he has never been married and has no kids. How do they get the pictures so good of them actually being on the job(oil field)???
Quietman
April 24, 2018
I have been a victim of many online scams, as a result of seeking a female partner,from Russia, Ukraine, Poland Germany and many other countries including Ghana, please help me ?. I have even tried using alleged trusted dating sites and am now almost suicidal with being a victim.
lady534
April 24, 2018
I was just tried in March till April 2018 some guy claiming to be a Lawson Brown on Face Book.. Oh we talked and had good conversations of love and I almost fell for him till he ask for my bank information, well I blocked him. I feel bad for the real person who profiles they are using
JennyLuDon't u…
April 24, 2018
Does anyone know Andrew Friday, who claims to be a project manager on an oil rig in the middle of the German sea? Evidently, there are a couple of guys with the same name floating around, but I'm not too sure about this. That's all I will say for now because, at this stage in my life, you would think I'd know better. All I was looking for was a pen-pal. Boy, do I feel like a stupid fool!
'amanda sue green
April 24, 2018
I recently became involved with a guy with the name mark Eden He has 2 children he lost his wife 4 years ago He has purposed to me and ask me to move to Dallas.we have known each other12 weeks. He is soppose to be a dr. Living in Syria.zTonight after this length of time he just stops texting.no warning... Just stops. 2 days ago he had ask me to barrow a1000 I told him i had no way to do that as i live on Dissability.bad to say buti really cared about him. Now i think because of the 1000 hes a scammer
Africa scammer
April 24, 2018
Had this guy named Davis Manderson find me on fb before Christmas. After about 4 days he said he loved me. After about 2 weeks he deleted his fb said he got in trouble by his army commander. Said he's a staff sergeant in the army and been in for 11 years divorced his ex wife after 16 years. Yesterday found 2 fb accounts one with the name Johnson Manderson and the other Manderson John faith. Also found his Instagram page under the name simon Davis Manderson . I'm trying to find the real man in the photos . He told me if I truly didnt believe him I could go to the police and give him all the information and it would come back clean. He's asked me for money due to him being stuck in Nigeria and how it's a poor country and they have no money and he can't access his account. Anyways, has anyone dealt with him?
Quizzer
April 25, 2018
Anyone been talking to someone called Harris floydie ray say hes a riggerand has a daughter called sarah
Alien Scammers
April 25, 2018
Have you tried someone unknown number texted you to email him/her because he has something important issue to tell? Because I have tried it, after I emailed to him/her out of curiosity I have tried to response to his request due to the coincidence that I thought it was about my online package that was lost yet it was not. The stranger responded and was requesting to Call him the US Number so that we can talk regarding the CLAIMING of MONEY from an OFW who died in USA for me to be the representative relative of that person. His first step was asking only me the common details like Full Name, Address, Age, Occupation and Gender. I did not gave to him my details instead just go with the flow of asking him more about himself cause I know HE IS DOING SCAMS. IT WAS MY FIRST TIME TO EXPERIENCE THIS KIND OF SCAMS but I did not give in. I am just wise enough to just play with that SCAMMER.
Alien Scammers
April 25, 2018
I cannot see my previous post. It's my first time to be scammed talking to a Foreigner on phone I never knew he used the phone number in US while I am from another Country far away from US.
COURIOUS
April 25, 2018
Has anyone talked to anyone named George Thomas from Military and has a son in West Africa in school when he is on duty because the child was adopted and doesn't have a mother?
Deborah68
April 25, 2018
I sent a previous comment about Maxwell Herenandez whom I believe is a scammer. On Monday he asked me to get a money card from Wal-Mart and his company would load it with money for me to buy itune cards. I of course said no. Since then he has not been talking to me but I have been getting texts and phone calls about applications I have completed for a job. I did not complete any applications anywhere. I have had four phone calls this morning and one text. Could this be connected to my scammer? His way of paying me back because I did not help him?
Frommo
April 27, 2018

How about a girl living in Nigeria, originally from Kansas, Name is Natalie Calus? Anyone heard of her?

myqueen?
December 02, 2018

In reply to by Frommo

do you have picture a nd dors she have 2 boys . i think im deeply in love with a scammer
Vicki S
April 27, 2018

Has any one come across a Mr Michael Owen he says he's a Sargent major in the US Army who is in Syria

Run4yourlife
September 01, 2020

In reply to by Vicki S

Yes, as we speak. He says he has 2 boys. Wife was a drug addict. Parents were killed when he was young. Went to stay with his Uncle Australia, I think He says he lives in San Antonio, Tx. Stationed in Syria. Sargent in the Army. We have been conversing back and forth. Accept WWF request which quickly moved to Hangouts. Soon he stared asking for money. Said that he needs 3k to leave Syria. Told me if I sent it , don’t worry, get it back because( he has a lot of money) but doesn’t have access to it his account in Texas because it’s froze. Now he claims he was leaving Syria last week to stop in Turkey to catch connecting flight to Texas, but was stopped when they checked his box and found drugs. How he said he is being held in Turkey but is needing 20k to get home....... Truly a scammer!!!
Golfman
April 27, 2018
I have been in a scam with Sarah Brown claiming to be in Africa Ghana Accra and I have lost $28,000 to this person I am still paying for a lot of this money what's now actually goes up to $34,000. I cannot get anyone to help me find this person the FBI will not help me they say it is too much money for just that little bit amount of money so if you are not in a scam over $100,000 they will not help you. That pisses me off royally I am from the US this happened in July 2016 and the ended in March 2017. I hope everyone that is in the scams can get some justice out of what has happened to you but I never will.
FTC Staff
April 27, 2018

In reply to by Golfman

If you used Western Union to send money to a scammer between January 1, 2004 and January 19, 2017, you can file a claim to get your money back. You must file by May 31, 2018.

Go to FTC.gov/WU for more information about the settlement between the FTC, US Department of Justice and Western Union and the refunds. You can click the orange button near the top of the FTC.gov/WU page to connect to the refund website.

You can also file a complaint with the FTC at FTC.gov/complaint. The details you give will go into a secure database that the FTC and other law enforcement agencies use for investigations. You can report a scammer to the money transfer company you used.

FTC Staff
May 07, 2018

In reply to by Cautious4sure

We generally do not edit published blog comments. You may send a message to the staff who review blog comments at BlogInfo@FTC.gov.

SOSADSOGLAD
April 27, 2018
A RICK CRAVEY VERY HANDSOME IN PROFILE PHOTO'S. OLDER GENTLEMAN IS ON A PEACE MISSION FOR THE "UN" STATIONED IN "SYRIA" BEEN IN THE "UN" FOR 36YRS, WIFE DIED 3YRS AGO IN A PLANE CRASH. HE WAS SEEKING SOMEONE TO BE A MOTHER FIGURE FOR HIS SON AND A WIFE AND LOVER HE COULD SPEND THE REST OF HIS LIFE WITH, HE WAS WAITING FOR HIS PENSION TO COME IN SO HE COULD RETIRE. FROM THE VERY FIRST I SUSPECTED SOMETHING WRONG BECAUSE THE LAST NAME SEEMED TO BE MADE UP. SMOOTH TALKER, WORDS OF LOVE. ALMOST HAD ME BELIEVING THAT HE MAY BE REAL, I WAS ALSO HOPING THAT IT WAS REAL EVEN THOUGH THINGS JUST DID NOT ADD UP. HE EVEN SAID IF I WOULD "LET" HIM MARRY ME. "TOLD" ME TO GET THE INTERNET AND WI-FI AT HOME SO HE COULD TALK WITH ME ANYTIME HE NEEDED TOO. AFTER ABOUT 2 1/2 MONTHS OF TOTAL LOVE AND DEVOTION AND EVEN SWEET TERMS OF ENDEARMENT LIKE CAN I CALL YOU "HONEY" ETC. ETC. THEN HE ASKED ME TO SEND HIS 17YR OLD SON THAT LIVES IN INDIANA A GIFT FOR HIS BIRTHDAY, WHEN I READ THAT I STARTED SHAKING I THEN KNEW HE WAS SCAMMING ME ("HE" MEANING THE ONE THAT HAD STOLE SOMEONE'S "ID" AND PHOTO'S). I EARTH GOOGLED THE INDIANA ADDRESS HE GAVE ME TO SEND HIS SONS GIFT IT IS AN BOARDED UP DILAPIDATED OLD HOUSE, OR IT IS THE EMPTY LOT ACROSS THE STREET FROM THE OLD HOME. I TOLD HIM I ONLY HAD $10.00 TO $20.OO DOLLARS, THAT I LIVE FROM PAY DAY TOO PAY DAY THAT'S WHY AT MY AGE I WAS STILL WORKING, I HAVE NO SOCIAL SECURITY AND NO RETIREMENT, HE IGNORED ME, THEN ASKED FOR $100.00 SO HIS SON COULD GO SWIMMING ON HIS BIRTHDAY, I TOLD HIM I COULD NOT HELP. AFTER A COUPLE MORE WEEKS OF TOTAL LOVE AND DEVOTION HE ASKED ME FOR $200.00 FOR HIS SON THAT NEEDED MILK MONEY AND SCHOOL BOOKS. I COULD NOT. THEN $300.00 FOR HIS SON, THEN HIS SON WAS IN AN ACCIDENT AND NEEDED SURGERY BUT THE DOCTORS WOULD NOT DO SURGERY UNTIL THEY RECEIVED $2000.00. I TOLD HIM THAT THE "UN" HAS TOTAL INSURANCE FOR HIM AND HIS FAMILY HE SAID THE INSURANCE WOULD ONLY PAY FOR THE SURGERIES AND HIS SON NEEDED A LIFE SAVING BLOOD TRANSFUSION TO RESTORE HIM BACK TOO LIFE HE NEEDED $3000.00 DOLLARS FOR THE BLOOD TRANSFUSION, HE EVEN SENT ME A PHOTO OF SOME YOUNG MAN LAYING ON A HOSPITAL BED ALL BANDAGED UP AND BROKEN AND BRUISED, MY HEART SANK THE YOUNG MAN IN THE PHOTO WAS NOT A 17 YEAR OLD HE COULD OF BEEN MAYBE 8YRS OR 10YRS AT THE MOST. I FELT JUST AWFUL FOR THAT CHILD IN THE HOSPITAL. I TOLD MY "HONEY" I COULD NOT SEND MONEY, WHY WOULD HE ASK ME AFTER ALL THE TIMES I TOLD HIM ABOUT MY SITUATION? HE SAID BECAUSE I WAS THE CLOSEST TO HIS HEART. HE ASKED IF I REALLY DO LOVE HIM? I NEVER EVER SPOKE THE WORD OF "LOVE" TOO HIM. I TOLD HIM I WOULD KNOW IF IT'S LOVE AFTER I MEET HIM IN PERSON. SO I TOLD HIM HE NEEDED TO FIND SOMEONE THAT COULD BE A MOTHER FIGURE TO HIS SON AND A WIFE FOR HIM BECAUSE I HAVE BEEN THERE DONE THAT. I ALSO SUGGESTED THAT HE SHOULD FIND SOMEONE THAT COULD HELP HIM FINANCIALLY BECAUSE I COULD AND WOULD NOT HELP FINANCIALLY. I ASKED HIM NOT TO BLOCK ME UNTIL HE FOUND SOMEONE ELSE AND TELL ME HE HAD SO I WOULD NOT WONDER WHAT THE HECK? EVEN THOUGH I KNEW HE WAS A SCAMMER. BUT HE BLOCKED ME WITHOUT SAYING A WORD. OH WELL!! I'M SAD BUT GLAD!! GOOD LUCK EVERYONE! ESPECIALLY THE OLDER LADIES THE ONES THAT KNOW FROM THE START THAT IT'S A SCAM. BUT THE SCAMMER CAN REALLY PULL YOUR HEART STRINGS. I'M SO GLAD I GOT OFF SO EASY ANYWAY I PRAY THAT I HAVE AND THAT IT IS REALLY OVER.
Sarah
April 27, 2018
I have been scammed I think he says he is sgt chris Baez ever time I say can’t and won’t help give him money he constantly calls using various numbers if block I fall for at first and have given him a lot in iTunes cards but says Netherlands because of customs stopped him and has to pay for replacement sgt nigeria before he come uk is they anything that anybody can do to get verified or compensation for the money I’m single mum and he has made hard to live and dept
Frisbee
April 28, 2018
A man named Eric contacted me from Spain. Two children, independent contractor, very handsome. He thinks I'm beautiful and wants to be together, but needs money and iTunes card, oh and a new IPhone. I told him, I'm married, and he needs to move on.
cookiegurl
April 29, 2018
Hi I’m not sure if I’m being scammed or not I need to find out please help me
cookiegurl
April 29, 2018
Ok his name is Filip from a tagged website anyone talk to him from DesPlains ,IL
Priscilla
April 29, 2018
Hi I need HELP! Has anyone heard of a David Anderson Antonio who is a gemologist in Turkey and needs money to get his passport?
Tamtam69
April 30, 2018
A male contacted me on a dating site. He gives his name as Muller Gillian. He says he is of German descent...living in Florida for last 5 years. Lost his wife in a car accident. He is a Road construction engineer..currently on contract work in Turkey..which is his project. One of the workers got badly burned..when the engine of one of the large tractor looking machines caught fire. I was sent a picture of an injired man on his hospital bed. Apparently All this man's budget is used up because he now has to rent a machine to complete the project..because to expensive to buy. But because his budget being eaten up by this..he is not able to pay the workers..So he told me he needed 10k...I told him straight away that I was not in a position to do so...but I would encoutage him..etc. it was only After He kept going on about this money...for a few days..that he asked me if I could help him with £1500. ..and this was after he said one if his friends sent him 6k. Then he said the injured man needed an operation of which that was what the 1.5k was for. I still told him I am not able to help..and that I needed help myself! The texting has slowed down..and non existent.. My head is telling me one thing and My gut is telling me another. However he told me that he is not angry..but very disappointed at the non willing to help in his time of need, as he would help out with no questions asked if someone else needed the help. So if anyone else dealing with Muller Gillian..49 yrs...German born. 2 kids..Sandra and Martins and wife died in car crash 4 years ago!..Post please!!!
nowbroken
May 01, 2018

In reply to by Tamtam69

Did you see a picture of him? If so, can you describe him and/or anything about the picture? Some of the things he said to you sound very familiar. He used a different name and story with me, but so many of the circumstances and things he said were nearly identical. Did he call you any silly names or make up a nickname for you?
nowbroken
May 02, 2018

In reply to by Tamtam69

Is that the spelling he gave you for his name? When you search it, women come up with first name Gillian and last name Muller.
Heartache by t…
May 02, 2018

In reply to by Tamtam69

Hi, your story had similar circumstances as mine. His name is Joseph Donald Welter. If you’d like to talk please let me know.
nowbroken
May 03, 2018

In reply to by Tamtam69

Which dating site was this Muller on? I'd love to know if it's the same guy who tried to scam me. Was his profile in English or in german?
Peech911
May 11, 2018

In reply to by Tamtam69

Tamtam69...my mom is being scammed by someone very similar. Different name but almost same story. Only her scammer's child died along with his wife. He first got almost $4000 from my mom because he needed to pay his workers in Turkey but ran out of money. He claimed he would have his contract company send her money right away. All they did was pay 2 of her low limit credit cards (avout 1000 each) but then he asked her to buy itunes cards for the amounts he paid to her credit cards..a few weeks later the payments were reversed. So she is out the $4000, plus her credit cards are now both over the limit by $1000 each. And now every month, he asks her when she gets her "cheque" (she get social security). And he always has a story as to why he needs money. He has been in the hospital with broken bones at least 4 times. Each time requesting 500 in order for them to preform the "surgeries because of all the pains" he is in. She tells him she doesnt have it but can send $250. He accepts and tells her his pastor in Nigeria (Daniel Ikponwosa) will come up with the rest. The months that he isnt in the hospital, he claims the Turkish Tax agent is on his neck and if he doesnt pay $500 now he will be jailed. Yesterday she told him she only had $200 and he said that wasnt enough and now he is going to jail and its all her fault. Today he had "The Turkish Tax Agent" text her from his number, stating that he was arrested and would be jailed unless she sent $400 to his pastor in Nigeria immediately. She has sent almost $10,000 to this man, each time to his pastor in Nigeria. Also a few times he has had another woman send her money through money gram and she in turn forwards it to the pastor, apparently that money of for dying kids in Africa. I have tried so hard to convince her its a scam. Even showed her episodes of Dr Phil, and have showed her this man doesnt exist anywhere in the world as he states. She just gets mad at me and has even start3d to develop a hatred to me and my kids. We love her and just want her to stop sending her money to this man who isnt going to ever come sweep her off her feet. I am scared to death as to what he will convince her of next. He is currently trying to convince her to take a loan out on her house . So far she says no on that.
Telling It Real
April 30, 2018
Hello, this message goes out to each one who has posted as well as anyone posting after this date: You Are All being Scammed! If you are questioning it then you know it is. Just one word of advice to all of you... "RUN!!" I am "fully aware" of the scammers and ""exactly how they operate,"" I am telling each of you independently, You Are Being SCAMMED!! Once again have no doubt and RUN for all you're worth.
Heartache by t…
May 02, 2018

In reply to by Telling It Real

Hi Telling it Real, it is such a horrible heartbreaking experience. I am still trying to move on. I am embarrassed, exasperated, lonely, Heart broken.